Sri Sai and Matrimonial Problems

Aum Sairam

The need to relate Sri Sai with your love and married life for any women, deciding her life partner is the most crucial one. After a point of time, when a problem happens in relationship , the first emotion that grows in them is anger on our SAI...Many say , its Sai who gave me this life and united me with this guy but why did it breakup and why gradually am pushed to such a state because of situation.

Don’t blame Sri Sai after doing things to satisfy your own needs and desires.

Every time someone says that they are looking for a prospective bride/groom, It's habit of few highly devoted Sri Sai followers to ask him for hints like using "answer book", writing chit, few good incidents, getting a photo, happening of good event, little things like flowers falling down from statue etc when they pray Sri Sai. Sri Sai seems to give positive hints confirming that the guy/girl involved is good is chosen by Sri Sai for you and he will keep you happily and marry you. But later when problems arise between you and your in laws or spouse then, you say -"Baba only gave that guy/girl to me , then why did he/she leave me and why Sri Sai cant help when am suffering like this ? "

Why did Sri Sai let you go through all these stages of love?

1. Meeting
2.Talking and understanding, few incidents
3.Proposing, Loving, spending time together, roaming, the most common activity of talking on phone
4.Getting married. Some do it with Blessings of parents and some opposes parents and marry
5.Finally problems with in-laws, then your spouse and then in few months or years the relationship turns bitter and ends in separation or divorce.

Sri Sai has said this “Unless there is some relationship or connection, nobody goes anywhere. If any men or creatures come to you, do not discourteously drive them away, but receive them well and treat them with due respect. "

The philosophy of "Pay Back your past life’s bad karma”:

The reason is simple, who are these people whom you get attracted to, fall in love and suffer? Do you think others don’t deserve your attention? Why is it that I am in love with a particular girl and that particular girl is in love with some other guy? .Why Sri Sai first makes you meet a man , fall in love with him, marry him and at last your life gets worse and you are forced to divorce him.

The reason is simple. We are born to "Pay back" what we got in our previous birth. May be I would have cheated the same girl in my previous births life and that’s why am suffering now. I mean we are suffering, accepting punishment for the sins that’s done by our atman in some birth we took. Though we are not responsible for that, it’s our karma to go through it.

Now Sri Sai would have helped us before but that needs Total Surrender to Sri Sai.

Please don’t think Sri Sai didn’t help you. Sri Sai and all pure saints act as per dharma and they have to let you go throw your "Pay back" phase in life only after which you will get wisdom and with wisdom comes the gift of Sri Sai. They will help you for sure but if your karma is so bad then it won’t let you take a devotional path that easily. That’s why Sri Sai says " surrender all your senses and just say my name Sai Sai Sai and I shall take you over the seven seas"…. what does Sri Sai mean by this seven seas...Its the pains and suffering you are facing now. Had you and I remembered Sai Sai and Sai alone with out giving space to our sensory needs then surely Sri Sai would have got a chance to protect us.

Ok leave the past. At least now we are in Sri Sai’s fold and lets be totally devoted to him, read Shri Sai Satcharitra regularly, light candles or lamps ,offer garland to Sri Sai, humbly prostrate before him , ask him to forgive us for our past mistakes and guide us, show us a light from this very minute.

“IF YOU SOW FAITH, YOU WILL REAP MIRACLES"

SOWING – SAI KA LAADLA

Allah Malik